Becoming A Member
By After Pandora
We are always keen to welcome new people to After Pandora. Our Members are the lifeblood of our community and each new person brings their own energy to our events, giving us the exciting and friendly mix that everyone expects from After Pandora. We can’t always be specific about what we are looking for, but these are a few of the things we really prize:
- Creativity: We find that creative people are more expressive and open, and they often bring more energy to parties. This doesn’t mean you have to be an artist or a graphic designer though. It is more important that you have a lively imagination, a sense of fun and a willingness to explore new things.
- Communication skills: When parties hot up, good communication is extremely important. We favour people who communicate clearly, ask for what they want and allow space for a genuine answer – whether that is a yes, a maybe, or even a straightforward no.
- Open-mindedness: You may not be into everything that happens at our parties, but it’s very important that you don’t judge others for their orientation, preferences and ways of exploring pleasure.
- A passion for kink: Think of this as a variation on that old workplace sign… “You don’t have to be kinky to play here, but it helps!”
To join After Pandora we ask you to complete a short online form, telling us a little about yourself. Soon after we hear from you we get in touch, inviting you to our next Social.
Everyone who attends one of our Private Parties has been approved by at least 2 of our Regular Members beforehand. Vetting ensures that the Parties remain a safe place to play whilst retaining the intimacy that sets them apart from other events. It means that things can get wilder and raunchier as, when people know that the crowd is sound, they feel free to really let loose.
Are you ready to join?